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Tech.LGBT Removes Shadow Ban on George Takei, Blocks Me for Asking Why.

Tech.LGBT Removes Shadow Ban on George Takei, Blocks Me for Asking Why.

Yesterday, I posted about Tech.LGBT, a Mastodon server, putting a shadow, or “soft” ban on George Takei, a gay Japanese-American man who was a victim of the United States Concentration Camps under Executive Order 9066.

Mr. Takei was taken to these camps as a child, along with his family, and many, many American citizens, in what the United States government later admitted was an atrocity committed without legitimate purpose, without any wrongdoing on the part of the victims, due to “wartime hysteria” and “racial prejudice”, in 1988, when Congress passed an apology and a reparations bill.

A “trans person” who blogs against Techrights has at least one account on Tech.LGBT. When I clicked through to George Takei, this is what appeared.

Why would you shadow ban George Takei?

He’s a gay man, a victim of racism and xenophobia, and of concentration camps, and he is also notable for playing a fairly major role in Star Trek (the Original Series) as well as several of the movies. (Mr. Sulu)

When I asked a moderator on Tech.LGBT why they banned George Takei:

Their only response was to block me.

So that I couldn’t send them any more messages.

I am still blocked by this person, simply for sending this message.

However, today, George Takei is unblocked.

It’s amazing that when you call people out on this, they can’t just say “Oops.” and quit attacking people, right?

*sigh*

“Pro-LGBT” Mastodon Instance Tech.lgbt Shadow Bans George Takei.

Meanwhile over at Tech dot LGBT…

The moderators have decided that nobody is allowed to see George Takei.

It’s amazing how horrible some of these Mastodon admins are.

A “pro-LGBT” instance shadow bans a gay man, who is a Progressive, and a survivor of American WW2 internment camps.

What kind of “Pro-LGBT” group bans a gay man who was the victim of an American war crime?

Says everything!

American Search Engines; Disinformation Peddling, Propaganda, Censorship, and Lies. What Kind of a Country is This? And a Commentary on Gay Rights.

American Search Engines; Disinformation Peddling, Propaganda, Censorship, and Lies. What Kind of a Country is This? And a Commentary on Gay Rights.

The situation with American search engines is rapidly deteriorating.

The situation was already unacceptably bad when just two companies got to control the entire search market. Those companies being Google and Microsoft.

But throughout the 2010s, you could still view most of the things you asked them for.

As time went on, especially in the wake of COVID, they’ve become Gaslighting Engines, full of disinformation, propaganda, censorship, and lies.

What I KNOW they are hiding is disturbing, but obviously only people working at Google and Microsoft have the entire blacklists available.

I have a hunch that if we knew the half of it, it would be downright scandalous. Far from being limited to “a few sites where someone was getting decapitated” in the 2000s, now Microsoft blocks almost all (legal) porn, and this trickles down to everything that asks it for results, including DuckDuckGo, which is a flat-out copy of the same results as Microsoft Bing.

They also block information they don’t want people to have about how dangerous the alleged “COVID vaccines” are or their true efficacy*, as well as any “debate” about climate change.

*(COVID shots are quite dangerous, and not very useful, as I and others only learned at some great cost, with the Pfizer shot damaging the heart of someone I know and his doctor having to write a medical slip saying he could never take one again….fortunately I didn’t get it THAT bad. This year I’m just skipping it. I told my doctor and she moved right along. If she had persisted in repeating the government lies and propaganda, I would have kept going through the list until I found a doctor that wasn’t compromised to the point of arguing about it, knowing they were wrong.)

The people running the search engines have made the decisions on every issue that is up for debate. It’s the one that they want you to arrive at.

And if logic and reason tell you that you’re right, and they’re lying to you, they will simply bullshit you until you doubt what you’ve repeatedly witnessed. The tactic of the disinformation peddler is to tell you to ignore what you’ve experienced and bully you into admitting things you know aren’t true.

You’re not even allowed to read anything else anymore.

When did information become illegal in a country with the alleged “Freedom of Speech”? When did information become “banned” in a Free country?

You can’t ban information in a Free country, so the only logical conclusion is that America is not a Free country. Not anymore.

On top of this, they also block a lot of Web forums, international news sites, and to a large extent, Microsoft and the search engines that ask it for things are dramatically limiting the reach of porn.

Flat out refusing to return any for more and more types of “porn” queries.

What they decide to return to you is what they decide.

We’ve spent so many years reaching the point where there’s basically only one search engine that’s even usable at all (Google), that it’s reached the point where Google might as well be the government. They go above and beyond what the government wants them to censor and lie about.

We know that the Biden Administration contacts tech companies and tells them to ban, shadow ban, and delist users and their posts, and even Democrats in Congress do it.

The Fifth Circuit Court of Appeals ruled that the Biden Administration and Congressional Democrats violated the First Amendment of the Constitution, and ordered them to knock it off, as of October 3rd, 2023.

But we have the most Anti-Constitutional Administration and Party in control of the US federal government, maybe in American history. It just rules “with a pen and a phone” and sees what sticks, and eventually the courts bring an end to the worst of it (like “COVID Vaccine” threats), so whatever limits the court has placed, the Biden Administration and Democrats are likely already looking for ways around.

There’s nothing that pisses off a leftist troll mob like a person who can think for themselves.

There is a group and it is hated wherever it goes. This group has been the subject of mass murder by the Nazi Party, and it has faced the death sentence, imprisonment, abuse of psychiatry, and other horrors. No, not the Jews.

I’m gay and I have a mob following me around the Internet, launching virulently homophobic garbage my way and trying to get me banned from everything. They’re so mentally unstable and evil that they even say racist things about my spouse, who they don’t know, just to hurt me. At the same time, they demand respect from me, for being “trans”. This just isn’t how that works.

You ask when will the persecution of gay men ever stop? Probably never. It’s welcomed on Mastodon.social as we speak. A “Social Networking” site, subject to the laws of Germany. How ironic.

It greatly offends them to see someone who was so badly oppressed by the American government for over 30 years that he not only had no Freedom to marry, but could have been arrested in half the states for the first 19 years simply for existing, who says openly that he doesn’t like what America, and more broadly, the Western world, has turned into.

Even long after the 1970s, well into the 2000s, mainstream Psychiatry in America was very openly homophobic. If you spoke to a psychiatrist, you had to tread lightly on the entire issue.

When I was a teenager in the early 2000s, a psychiatrist asked me “Are you attracted to men?” and I said “Absolutely not.”

Later on, I read his clinical notes, and he wrote down that “he agrees that he is a NORMAL [all caps] heterosexual male”.

The way in which he asked it led me to believe I would face trouble if I said yes. So I lied. There’s no shame in lying to a person like this.

What was I supposed to say to a person who had the legal authority to detain me without trial and fill me with primitive pharmaceuticals if he didn’t like me? They don’t call it “punishment for society being homophobic, and nobody will stop me”.

“Why yes, yes, I am everything you hate! You know those Muslim people that just blew up New York City? Well, I’m GAY. Not only gay, but I don’t believe in God! You hate me MORE!”

They just commit these terrible and criminal abuses of Psychiatry, and nobody will stop them.

Law & Order: SVU had a banned episode called “Unstoppable” about a rapist nobody would do anything about. They should have made an episode called that about Psychiatry.

No matter what they say these days, nobody has convinced me that Psychiatry has changed at all. They keep re-issuing the DSM, and if you read it closely they take “gay” out and put it back in somewhere as things they can say instead, to the same effect, but it’s about muddying the waters.

It’s not that there are just a lot of old psychiatrists hanging around from when being an open bigot was more acceptable in the profession, it’s that Psychiatry is hardly even medicine and it draws in the very worst doctors.

Even as a teenager, I was smart enough to pick up on where it was going with this guy. I knew I wouldn’t be a martyr. I would have only picked the wrong hill to die on.

Today, people would just go screaming all over the place until they get what they want. Back then, it would have been “Sir, this is a Wendy’s.”

It will be demonstrated that I knew, for a fact, that I would not even be helped by my own parents, if this brain butcher decided to go to work on me.

The Nazis did the same things to gay people that they did to the Jews.

We have records of gay people being oppressed all over the world going back hundreds of years, we have records of gay people in various societies going back into antiquity with varying levels of acceptance.

In some ways the modern world has been worse to gay people than the ancient world was.

One of the crazies that follows me around and tries to get me banned everywhere was talking about “gay rights in the world”, as-if I was the one that needed any lectures about living in an oppressive shithole.

They act like rights come from the government. That’s something that only a fool could believe.

Perhaps President Ronald Reagan put it best when he said that the government doesn’t solve problems, the government is the problem, and that the nine scariest words in the English language are, “I’m from the government, and I’m here to help.”

The government doesn’t give anyone a right. You have to take them.

Sometimes it means openly ignoring that law.

For half my life, being gay was a crime in half of America.

Ignoring the law that made it a crime was not wrong.

I think that most people would agree with me on that now, but that doesn’t change the fact that to be gay then, you also had to be a criminal in the eyes of the law.

Eventually, you hope it relents, and that it may finally give you some of the things that other people were entitled to for tens or hundreds of years, or for as long as this government has existed and denied some people their rights.

Obviously, I can only speak to what I’ve seen over the past 40 years or so, but this is my take. It could be wrong, but here’s my take.

I knew dozens of other gay people (counting bisexual people) in Indiana in the late 90s and early 2000s. Some were open or semi-open about it. Usually at least their immediate family knew.

One of my friends from school was bisexual. It obviously wasn’t something that was largely invented just over the past few years or so. Up until about a few years ago, you hardly saw any trans people at all.

I only knew one until a few years ago, and when I knew him, he was a man, and he was a very bad man. He got married to my (now deceased) Aunt and had children, and then ran out on them. I don’t respect that. You want to go become a woman? Whatever. Don’t start a family and run out on them.

But back in the 90s, it was impossible to even suggest that anyone was “going into the schools and teaching kids to be gay”.

We were widely despised in America. Only 10% of Republicans said being gay was “morally acceptable”, and today half of Republicans say it is, and 70% of Americans polled by Gallup. But in the 90s, we were about as popular as cancer, but everyone still knew someone that was gay. It was, awkward, I guess.

Many people, like my parents, would just blurt out homophobic shit right in front of you, in public, and nobody cared.

Nobody who was gay talked much about being gay.

If someone who wasn’t gay did, they almost never said anything good about it. All you ever heard was shit like my mother and father said in the car about it being synonymous with pedophilia and that these people would murder kids.

Thanks to this childhood abuse, I didn’t even have a word for what I was. I knew I didn’t want to be gay because the only thing I’d ever heard about that word was what I just told you, so I was very terribly confused. Not about being attracted to other people, my own age, of my gender. I was very certain of that. But I didn’t have a word that wasn’t contaminated.

While straight children in school learned about sex in Health class, all they ever told us in Indiana public schools in 1996 was about gay and Black people getting AIDS. That isn’t really a dig at Indiana, because most of the country was on the same page.

It was the government doing this. The same government people want in total control of the Internet today, so that the government can decide what “disinformation” is.

They followed that by pulling out the TV/VCR cart and driving home their point.

We had to watch a movie where a Black woman got AIDS and gave it to the baby she was pregnant with, and then the Black woman died of AIDS.

I think that if an all White State and county government with an all White school district faculty, showed that to a school with about 249 White students and 1 Black one today, that school district would probably be condemned on every major news site.

Things like this were amazingly, not the least bit scandalous, but nobody heard about it, and nobody cared if they did. At least nobody that the government would have listened to.

Nobody under about 30-35 in America today understands the grotesqueness of what people my age had to go through and I hope that they never will.

I wouldn’t actually say there’s a lot of courage that I’ve seen in the “trans” movement.

They waited until gay people such as myself had to face the worst of it (actual malice and discrimination) and defeated the bastards in court, and had to suffer hundreds of years of abuse at the hands of bigots, oftentimes suffering government action more severe than Communists and Black people got, especially during an era (the mid-20th century, before I was born, but with effect that lingered) where it was impossible to tell where the Indiana government stopped and the Indiana Klan began (a litany of abuses which declined very slowly), then the trans people started coming out of the woodwork after the nuclear winter was over, so to speak, and the gay people had put in the hard work to rebuild a more tolerant society.

There was never a time when Black people were treated so badly in Hollywood, as when they made entire movies for the government telling people to watch out for gay men who were incurable predators out to harm their children.

The distrust of government and their “laws” that the actions of said government caused for gay people my age or older are probably permanent and irreversible. You cannot create a system like this that makes people illegal and then blame them for getting used to being criminal simply for existing, and for no longer necessarily respecting the rest of your “laws”.

YouTube took the film down. I think they should have left it, honestly.

It shows how the American government “educated” Americans about gay people. Americans in my parents’ age group. Which probably explains why my mother told me, aged 5-6 or so, in a Taco Bell, while we were eating dinner, never to get in the car with a stranger because it might be “a gay man who would rape [me] and cut off [my] head, like they did to Adam Walsh.

And if that sounds bad, while she was implying that gay men were all like Ottis Toole, she was mild compared to my father.

Many a day would I be riding along in the car with Dad, with him shouting about “f****s ruining our country”, with Rush Limbaugh on the radio ranting about Bill Clinton, with the occasional “Spatula City” riff or plug for “Snapple”, which was big in the 90s.

Yes, for many years, Snapple was one of the big advertisers that made Rush Limbaugh popular. If you knew Rush like I had to, you could tell that something like Trump would eventually happen, even 30 years ago.

Roy Schestowitz says that my family sounds horrific. It always has been. Imagine having to live with that for years.

But these trans people that follow me around the Internet are even more homophobic than my parents were (let that sink in), and they’re even less good at denying it after they literally just said the thing.

One particularly sick individual managed to make a statement that was homophobic, racist against Asian people, and xenophobic against Filipinos all in the same sentence.

This would be the one that was bragging about how good their totally unimportant joke of a country is for trans people, like her.

Their only defense to the homophobia is claiming that they are trans, which makes them immune from whatever they do, on platforms like Libera Chat and Mastodon.

She may be trans. I don’t know, does it matter? She’s still a homophobe. She still hates Asian people.

I stood up to my own parents, I stood up to my own government. I don’t have to take this crap from a homophobic and racist Internet person.

The only time I let myself get backed into a corner by one of these homophobic assholes was that stupid psychiatrist in 2001, and I’m not proud of it.

I was more afraid of him than I was of people who have stabbed me, held a gun to my head, or beat the shit out of me (for being gay).

I’m less afraid of actual death than I am of psychiatrists. Once they go to work on people, they don’t stop. Cracked ribs and concussions heal. They get you on “medicine”, or take away your civil rights, that does not heal.

Being anti-government, as in opposed to it in general, is not extreme.

This American government has hurt me and kept me down and taken everything I’ve owned repeatedly. This government has protected people who have attacked me in the street, and it has attacked me.

Why wouldn’t I be against it, in principle? I have a long memory, and I don’t tend to forget who the enemies are.

I’ll never forget the propaganda, the abuse. The fact that I learned more from Internet pornography and experiences with people I promised would never be spoken about again, about myself, is an experience that I blame squarely on this government and my parents. Nobody ever accused them of being stupid. This was deliberate.

There are parts of our government keeping, like the Bill of Rights. Most of it needs to be repealed.

If it’s gotten so big that it can sit around all day E-Mailing Google and Microsoft things it doesn’t want me to know, it’s gotten too big.

I experienced a government that was my only source of information in the pre-Internet (at least in people’s houses) era, and given the propaganda and disinformation it promoted using this total authority, I’m not looking forward to them gaining total control of the Internet so we can go back to that.

As to the part about my parents, if I ask them about something like the “Taco Bell Incident” and why they would ever say such horrible things and lie to me like this, my mother will reply, “I don’t recall ever saying that. You must be imagining things.”

Oh really? I remember which Taco Bell it was at, which table in the restaurant we were sitting at, what I ordered, and that I was halfway into my bean burrito (with no onions) in 1990 when she said that awful shit, but I’m imagining the awful shit. Okay, gaslighting. How does that work?

If they could actually admit that they did this and apologize, I might hate them less.

In some countries, they apparently respect their elders. All I could think about while all this shit was going on was “at least the people doing this will start dying someday and my life might not be such Hell then”.

And even then it’s awkward, because I heard my dad has been having heart trouble and he’s still my dad.

But back to search engines…

Every year these search engines and the government get together, and they decide that there’s some new thing they won’t let you see, or don’t want to allow you to think about, and they start blocking it or framing it only one way.

That’s their answer for everything. Just block it or only return “the Party line”.

Their goal is that the Web should be shopping, banking, streaming (from Apple, Netflix, etc.), and reams of government-whitelisted propaganda, and there should be no more real people on it.

People on Twitter and Mastodon are not real people.

They’ve had their brains scooped out by the mass media and turned into mashed potatoes, and put back in. They’ve never had to endure anything like I have, I guarantee you. I only wish the worst thing that had ever happened to me was pronoun-related. Trust me.

Now all they do is share links to the most dishonest media outlets, ever, and agree with each other all the time. That’s all these things are. You disagree with anyone, they shoot you and that’s the last thing anyone hears from you on that platform.

The government, at least the American one, is not worried about Mastodon. It’s all under control. The instances that are not under control will be taken care of “by other means”, including de-indexing, attacks on hosting, and other forms of harassment, as is what increasingly happens to Web sites in general.

Even Wikipedia is pretty bogus. Any article that PR agencies and the government care about, they just pretend to be “editors”. They use sockpuppets. They write their own articles, they watch them. If anything that’s not good for them ends up there, they revert it and use tricks to ban people. They control what you read.

In some ways, things are not as bad on the American Web, yet, as they are in North Korea or China, but there is more similarity than they want you to think about.

I’m waiting for the part where Comcast, RCN, AT&T, and the few other ISPs in the United States get orders to block access to the sites.

It won’t even be crude DNS blocks like they do in already non-Free countries which were years ahead of us in all the wrong ways, like Canada and the United Kingdom.

Working with Enemies of Free Software, like Let’s Encrypt, they’ll also take their TLS certificates away.

Modern Web browsers scream about connecting to sites without TLS, and TLS only works with Cartel Certificates, and it won’t be long until TLS is mandated by these same browsers…they want to use Certificates for the Web the same way “Secure Boot” is meant to control what software your computer can run.

Then they’ll make sure there aren’t any American hosting providers your site can work with. There won’t even need to be a law or a reason why. If you haven’t done anything, they’ll just say there is “imminent danger to the public”. They’ve done this before to take down a lot of sites that aren’t violating any American laws.

If you use cell phones, you won’t be able to “get the app”. For years now, the US government has leaned on Google and Apple to throw everything out of the App Store and Play Store that it doesn’t like.

(For now you can just load an APK if you use Android though.)

They’ll drive you to the point where you give up or have to use “unorthodox” methods to run your site, or abandon the Web and hack something together on Gopher or Gemini, and then they’ll say “Well why would you do that if you’re not a <whatever>?”

It’s so completely obvious that the US Internet is turning into something more like the North Korean “Intranet”. They are literally doing it all right in front of us.

Their goal is that even if VPNs and Tor aren’t illegal, that you still won’t be able to easily access information. Once they cut you off from mainstream stuff, you are open to all sorts of crude DDoS attacks and such and they can finish you off that way.

The American government is oppressive and terrible, and it’s getting more oppressive and terrible now that it’s coming apart and taking on a trillion dollars in debt every three months or so.

But it’s not as “crude” as North Korea. Far from needing something like Naenara Browser or Red Star OS, they can go after you everywhere all at once.

The enemies, software-wise, are Windows and Mac OS, and to a lesser extent Chrome OS. They’re the “major Web browsers” like Firefox and Chrome.

You’re probably using unfriendly software to read this at this very moment.

Not content with just entirely controlling most of the software that Americans rely on, they pay unemployable nutcases to sit around all day and scream about Brave. They have “hate group watchers” like the SPLC which have said nothing about the recent Black Lives Matter endorsement of Hamas, telling parents to watch out for “Linux, Tor, Matrix, and Brave”.

The Anti-Defamation League, which primarily concerns itself with anti-Jewish hatred, moved a mention of BLM’s endorsement of Hamas down the list and under a heading that wouldn’t draw attention! This is just incredible.

But they have plenty of time to screech about software they don’t like.

I saw look at the list and use the software. Tell them thank you for the helpful recommendations!

I wish I could say what to do about Web Search.

Back in the day, search engines just basically did whatever you told them to, today they lie and promote disinformation (mostly from the government), lopsided results (which are always biased towards the left), and blacklist sites and wide swaths of content due to moral crusaders out collecting scalps (the porn) and copyright trolls (the bittorrent sites).

SearXNG can only solve a part of the “Google and Bing are bullshitting you.” problem.

The main thing SearXNG is designed to do is to protect your privacy.

While asking multiple engines the query can exploit gaps in their censorship and disinformation, they are never truly in 100% lock-step with one another, it’s still pretty bad. There’s still a whole Web out there you’re not seeing.

Some of the problem can be worked around by (and I use a VPN and Tor together for this) asking a Russian search engine like Yandex.

Is Russia bad in its own ways? Yeah, but amazingly their search index isn’t as censored as the ones in America, at least on the English site.

And if they don’t learn anything about me, what harm am I doing?

I would never resort to asking the Russians something if Google worked as well for me as it did in 2005 or 2010. Even Yahoo! in 2000 was better than this crap.

My position on what should be done about search is there should be a law against “blacklists” if it’s not material that is illegal under a Constitutionally-valid statute.

The leftist organizations have been urging the US Supreme Court to reverse its opinions from the 90s and allow the American government to shut down anything on the Internet it doesn’t like.

The American government has had a bit of a problem in the last few years where little things like Constitutions and laws don’t matter, so it’s probably just a matter of time before it starts openly defying court orders too.

There is no law in my State that says the governor can demand that everyone stay in their home over a virus. There simply isn’t.

So imagine my surprise when the governor purportedly “ordered” me to do that.

Bullshit! I will do whatever the Hell I want unless there’s an actual law that is in actual effect. Once Darren Bailey obtained relief from the governor’s phony executive order, the jig was up, but like all true authoritarian dictatorships, the governor said the executive order was still enforced.

I didn’t hear them enforce it on anyone. Nobody ever got ticketed for ignoring it.

Perhaps they were too busy sending the city police, the Sheriff’s department, a hostage rescue team, and the State Troopers downtown over the BLM (loves Hamas) riots and looting.

That was scary. And now, the BLM people who openly supported Hamas Terrorists the other day, with no consequences, have managed to erase the fact that that ever happened from existence.

It’s funny how BLM was “one movement” until it endorsed the people behind “Israel’s 9/11”, and now suddenly it wasn’t “really BLM” because it was “just some chapters of it really”.

Yes, because Chicago and Los Angeles are podunk little towns that nobody has ever heard of, far, far off the beaten path. /s

Politicians (all Democrats) who were climbing over each other to get the endorsements from BLM (loves Hamas) just a year or two ago are now stampeding to get away from it, disavowing themselves, removing BLM references and logos off their campaign Web sites.

Maybe they can “Get in touch.” with Google and have them chisel all this off the index.

Down, down the memory hole! Further, I say!

I have yet to see any “chapters” of people who honestly believe that all lives matter, promoting Hamas. Please inform me of how people who value all lives are bad.

The anti-Techrights trolls, including the homophobe/racist, support Hamas and terrorists pretty openly on Mastodon now. Some of them frame it in a way where they can deny it later, but in many cases it was a very “tepid disapproval” where they gave support to Hamas, but in a way where they could “still condemn the violence”.

You have to wonder who on the “Left” can work up the nerve to actually condemn Hamas, full stop, after the horrific events that have been unfolding as of late.

I condemn Hamas, full stop. There is no excuse for terror, and I hope they find every last one of the sons of bitches and hang them for this dastardly cowardly attack that murdered civilians, including many helpless children.

I separately continue to condemn Netanyahu, the person. What Hamas did will cement his control over Israel and make it impossible for anyone to stop him for years, like what happened with Geroge W. Bush’s approval after 9/11 where if anyone said something bad about the President, they disappeared.

(Starting with the journalists who had been used to operating with Press Freedom and didn’t appreciate the new country they had woken up in.)

Why is it so hard for the Left to condemn murderers? They’ve been brainwashed into thinking that the barbarians who voted for Hamas to rule the fictional “Palestine” have been cruelly oppressed by Israel. Israel is the only ally of the LGBT people in the entire Middle East. The rest are murderous savages.

Again, it will be a sad day when the American government gains total control over the Internet.

It will start out by claiming it is “eliminating Nazis and misinformation”, but that is not what’s going on.

It wants to make sure that you read nothing but misinformation, which will be whatever it wants to put there.

The first American released by North Korea without conditions.

That black US soldier, Travis King, that tried to defect into North Korea and told them he wanted to be a Communist there because America treated him so badly got EXPELLED the other day. He was the first American that they released unconditionally.

The news sites have moved to the point where he’s black so they’ve started removing his mugshot and any and all references to his conviction in South Korea regarding the bar brawl and vandalizing the cop car, but that’s sadly becoming extremely typical.

This is sort of like something out of Communism. The new revisions are in effect, and now he was just some tourist and who knows why he bolted into North Korea?

The only reason we do know is because it took them a while to pull down the information, send it to the Disinformation Ministry, InfoSpeak Division, and post the new retcons to the InterWeb.

I’ve been sort of following along to see how far he got there with that one and apparently Kim Jong Un was as impressed with him as I’ve been.

“Mr. Kim” probably did some thinking, and came to the conclusion that if this guy, who had been arrested by the South Koreans and convicted of a bar brawl and vandalizing a police car, wasn’t thrown out of a military (the US one), that pays for “gender reassignment” and “hormones” for prisoners convicted of treason (Chelsea Manning), then he probably wouldn’t survive the North Korean military.

The North Korean military gives people who are conscripted (most males of age) a threadbare blanket, and it’s not even their own personal threadbare blanket, and also starvation rations, and tells them to huddle together under the blankets if you want to stay warm. Also, no homosexual activity, punishable by death.

I’m a gay man and I know better than to try to sneak into a Communist country and ask them for anything.

The only Communist country that has warmed up to gay people enough to not shoot or imprison us is Cuba, and that’s only been in about the last five years. The others, you’ll be in some sort of a lunatic asylum at best.

And don’t even tell them you are an “individual with pronouns” because you’ll like their response even less.

Around 2000, the North Korean government wrote a propaganda book loosely about the USS Pueblo incident, and threw in a hammed up accusation that the US soldiers requested to engage in gay sex, and in the book their North Korean guard allegedly said, repulsed by the very idea, that “North Korean live lives fit for human beings” and would never allow such a thing.

In real life, the American prisoners were flipping off the North Koreans while they were photographing them in captivity and convinced them it was a “Hawaiian Good Luck Sign”.

The US military has been going downhill for years and I can only imagine what else the South Korean people are witnessing as the US government scrapes up violent crazies who have never faced a real court system before and trains them to be a violent head case somewhere else.

This is on top of political correctness destroying military readiness, like that Muslim guy, Nidal Hasan, several years back that murdered all those people on that base, and of course there were warning signs flashing and a lot of people noticed, but nobody said anything, because they knew what would happen to them if they did.

It amazes and horrifies me at the same time how a lot of American gay people, including ones with degrees, WANT this to become a Communist country. I don’t think you’re doing what you think you’re doing.

I guarantee you that whatever you think you’re going through right now is mild compared to this. When you get a chance, read this.

It’s from a gay, North Korean, defector. He’s the only one that we know of.

The Communist Party does horrible shit to gay people there, starting with editing us out of existence to the point that anyone who is gay doesn’t even have a word for it.

So even if they figure out what they are, they’ll keep it to themselves if they know what’s good for them.

Is this really the political situation you want in America?

If you went to college, you’re supposedly educated, right? Educate yourself.

Maybe you need to unlearn what you have learned about Communism. That’s okay. Everyone has been badly misguided at some point, about something. The only shame is not admitting it.

I’m glad that WordPress.com still lets me write about things that amuse me. If I even tried to post something like this on Reddit or in a news comment area, bye bye post and account. This country is no longer a lot better than Communism, at least the media isn’t.

Matthew J. Garrett, “Social Justice Warrior”, is still on Twitter even as Elon Musk now tweets fake news Web sites that blame LGBT people for the attack on Paul Pelosi.

As of Sunday, October 30th, 2022, Matthew J. Garrett, “Social Justice Warrior”, is still on Twitter even as Elon Musk now tweets fake news Web sites that blame LGBT people for the attack on Paul Pelosi. (NewsWaffle proxy of Original.)

It also doesn’t appear that Mr. Garrett has made any tweets that acknowledge what’s going on in there.

I’ve reached out to Mr. Garrett on Techrights IRC to see if he has anything to say about why he’s still on a platform that is now 100% owned by a homophobe who is blaming gay people for the attack on Paul Pelosi (Quite an odd accusation, but when have conspiracy theories made sense lately?), which will now do pretty much nothing about far-right cranks.

I will note any reply I receive.

Musk later simply deleted the tweet, by which time it had over 24,000 shares and 89,000 likes.

Disney scrubs LGBT people out of any movie they publish.

According to Pixar, Disney edits out LGBT characters or references from all movies that Disney publishes.

Unofficially, there’s been a “gay month” at Disney World for years, and they’ve never balked at taking the money. Disney also had absolutely nothing to say about the anti-gay bill that passed in Florida this month that has schools out kids to homophobic parents who very well might kill them or put them on the street.

I can still remember my aunt talking with my mother about how “grossed out” she was that there were men showing affection for each other at Disney World in the 90s “in front of the children”.

When I was a child, I also remember my mother talking about gay men, in the middle of a Taco Bell. I was sitting there, all of about seven, eating a bean burrito, listening to her tell me that all gay men are pedophiles and that’s why Adam Walsh was abducted.

Maybe they were both just regurgitating bullshit that they heard somewhere, but I kind of doubt that a fully grown woman honestly thinks this.

Obviously, that’s a straight up damned lie, but it also goes without saying that the Americans who worry about “the children” seeing gay people get married, also let them watch 10,000 people being murdered in TV shows and movies by the time they’re six. Which is terrific parenting, you know.

It’s a fucked up and dying country. We knew that.

In Texas, the state now openly harasses parents of transgendered children.

State Child Protective Services almost never have the resources to deal with people beating their kids and crushing out cigarettes on them and molesting them, but thanks to the modern Republican Party, which are basically Nazis, AG Ken Paxton forces them to waste resources investigating trans kids.

In Illinois, DCFS is in contempt of court for providing foster children with living situations so bad it’s illegal, and when a woman was reported by her kids for beating them, the Waukegan police showed up and she immediately attacked the police too.

This is just one example. DCFS workers recently gained the ability to carry pepper spray on the job, when they routinely walk into situations where there’s some nutcase with a machine gun.

LGBTQ kids obviously aren’t going to be harassed by the state of Illinois, but on top of having to deal with situations like this, Texas lobbed a political grenade into their version of DCFS.

“Partner” is not a legitimate way to refer to gay people in the United States. Some people do it anyway and claim ignorance, after you correct them.

Matthew Garrett is back again. This time to let everyone know that he’s completely unaware of the term “partner” as an anti-gay microaggression in the United States, where he lives.

When I pointed out on #Techrights IRC that the term “partner” is corrupted in US English and has a long history of being used as a derisive way of referring to gay people, usually by right-wingers and Fundamentalist Christians, Mr. Garrett took to Twitter to act as if he had no idea what I was talking about, and then his friends (Maybe from Microsoft, as usual? Who knows. Didn’t check. He has some though.) joined in the chorus of not being able to find any taint associated with the usage of “partner”.

It’s true that in some dictionaries, you won’t find the taint that LGBT people know when someone says “your partner”, especially now that you can get married and they know damned well that you are.

How do I know this?

Well, like most of the country, I don’t live in the artsy-fartsy areas and I know how and in what context right-wingers use words.

And it’s not necessarily just ignorant right-wingers. I’ve gotten the “YOUR PARTNER” thing from quite a few people who had just as much to lose from Trump as I did.

An example would be a former landlord who was from Vietnam. She originally got into the US as a refugee when South Vietnam fell and she was one of the lucky ones who got out and didn’t have to live under Communism.

She waited over 40 years as a green card holder and then became a US citizen only when Trump became the President (to the disgust of all people who detest authoritarianism and dictator-like behavior) and started bashing immigrants and choking off legal paths to immigration.

But the landlord constantly said “YOUR PARTNER.” using the same mocking tone as, for example, my mother.

I doubt this was a mistake. She was a very mean woman, and I understand that gay rights aren’t very big in most Asian countries.

Also, I enter into evidence the fact that when E-Harmony, a dating site operated by Christian Fundamentalists, lost an equal rights case in New Jersey, they set up an entirely separate site for gay people called “Compatible Partners”.

I’ve never heard the word “partner” come out of anyone’s mouth in a tone where I thought it wasn’t meant in offense.

So, Mr. Garrett, I don’t believe there’s an excuse for using this word now that you’re aware of the context in which homophobes tend to use it in the United States.

There is some debate around whether “partner” is an offensive term, but I think it easily can be, regardless of what dictionaries say.

In my opinion, if you can’t say what you mean, you can never mean what you say. At the very least, “partner” feels clunky, forced, and generic, and at the worst, it’s something that a bigot will use (in a tone that lets you know it).

Gay people spent centuries being put to death (in most of the world, then in Hitler’s holocaust camps, and now in most Muslim countries), then in prison, then in mental asylums, and then 50 years more being told they weren’t equal and would never be good enough.

Eight years after winning the right to marriage, it’s a term of contempt to refer to gay people who are married as “partner”.

And it’s used by sore losers who still can’t get over the fact that gay marriage is legal now. While most of society is over it, or getting over it, obviously some aren’t.

And while it’s a little less bad to refer to unmarried people as “partner”, remember that up to eight years ago, there were millions of Americans who would have been married, couldn’t be, were mocked, and learned to hate this word.

Marriage is important, and it’s a basic human right between adults. It says that you’ve grown out of your emotional infancy and decided to settle down and try to have a stable relationship. Hopefully with someone you love, or you’ve not done it for the right reasons. And with marriage, comes responsibility to your spouse that unmarried people don’t have, and rights that they don’t have because they have not accepted the responsibilities that go along with the rights.

Society holds marriage above bunking with a sex partner and calling it quits at the drop of a hat.

The entire 50 year marriage fight (after the APA dropped homosexuality as a mental disorder) was about Fundamentalists and other bigots trying to accuse gay people of being perverts in unstable relationships, and then making themselves right by setting them up to be in unstable relationships.

And using loaded terms is not right.

As a society, we use words all the time that fall into common derogatory usage as a euphemism.

It used to be acceptable to call someone with a learning disorder “retarded”, or “idiot”, or someone with a mental disorder “crazy”, “insane”, “mad”, “nuts”, and if you the reader can believe it,that was the NICE way of putting it.

No matter what word replaces one that has become “mean”, mean people with bad intentions will start using the nice word in a mean-spirited way.

Especially if you know someone is married, you should not say “partner”.

That’s, of course, my opinion. But as an openly gay man who has heard “partner” being used contemptuously throughout his life, I can tell you I do not appreciate hearing it.

I don’t see anything wrong with the traditional terms, except maybe that it makes people’s brain explode that they are inextricably linked to there being two genders, which is a totally different subject.

For my part, I never ever say “your partner” to anyone in a committed relationship because I feel it to be disrespectful, and when someone uses it, I immediately correct them with “my spouse”, or “my husband”. When I address someone, I say “your spouse”, “your wife”, “your husband”, “your girlfriend”, “your boyfriend”, “your lover”.

“Partner” may perhaps be appropriate if you just have a sex partner or something. But that’s lower in the social order than a committed relationship. And society treats it as such, under the law, accordingly.

In fact, it used to be an outright scandal when someone just jumped from bed to bed, carrying disease and causing children who would never know their own father, but society has gotten better in some ways and worse in other ways.

Is Mistr a trustworthy source of anti-HIV PrEP medication?

A company called Mistr claims to have an app where you can get PrEP for free, but is it legitimate?

When I saw the Facebook ads, I immediately wondered this. How would a company give out free doctor visits (online), call in prescriptions for Truvada or Descovy for Pre-Exposure prophylaxis, and give out free at-home lab tests?

They claim it’s free even if you have no insurance and they claim that the only charge will be for your medication, but that most insurance covers it, and that they will help you fill out Patient Assistance Programs if you don’t have insurance.

As the old saying goes, if it seems too good to be true, it probably is.

As another saying goes, if you’re not being charged, you’re usually the product.

Doctors charge hundreds of dollars for visits, hundreds for lab work, and you need to do this every few months or they stop writing your PrEP prescription.

It’s not something most people can afford to be on without a Health Department or Planned Parenthood (a legitimate charity) managing their PrEP case.

I would absolutely never trust an app that has unknown motivations that claims it will give me thousands of dollars worth of services “for free”.

I tried to ask them some questions about who was actually invested in their company and who pays for all of this stuff since it’s obviously not free to them.

That was about a week ago and they never replied with any answers, so this post is shorter than the one I intended to write, and I cannot definitively say what’s going on with this app/company.

Unfortunately, many people seem to go along with apps and give them too much information, and without considering why or how it will be used later, and this app is suspicious in my opinion.

Until they fully disclose how it is funded and what they do with your information, I wouldn’t touch it. They don’t seem to claim anywhere on their website that they’re a charity, and we know that billionaire investors invest into some creepy things, including suicide crisis lines, because data is worth money.

Worse, they make no guarantees that teenagers who use Mistr won’t be outed as LGBT (the target of the PrEP campaign) to their parents if insurance statements start coming in showing that they paid for PrEP medication, and any parent can get on the internet and figure out that these are HIV drugs and then that leaves the teenager with some tough questions from their parents which they wouldn’t have to answer if they went to the health department or Planned Parenthood.